In today's era of information explosion, various educational concepts are flooding in, including some seemingly beautiful but actually misleading ideas for parents.

A Tsinghua professor pointed out that the three major scams of happy education, useless academic qualifications, and excessive release of children's nature are silently affecting the healthy growth trajectory of Chinese children.

True love is not just about allowing children to enjoy the joy of the present, but about looking ahead and carefully planning for their future.

Lead them to develop a true skill that is capable of overcoming obstacles on the stage of their future lives during the critical period of growth.

01 The cornerstone of shaping children's good character

Raising Children "emphasizes that having flaws in children is not scary, but what is really scary is that parents, as guides in their children's lives, lack correct parenting concepts and effective parenting methods.

When a child accidentally makes mistakes or causes trouble, if parents blindly choose to protect and indulge, it is like planting time bombs on the child's path of growth.

On the contrary, children who have good behavior habits in our eyes are not born perfect angels.

But in the process of growing up, whenever faced with critical moments, it benefits from parents' attentive guidance and active and effective intervention.

Parents should teach them to bravely take responsibility for their mistakes, guide them to reflect deeply, and continuously correct their bad habits.

Because this is not just about helping children overcome a small flaw, but also planting a seed of responsibility and self-discipline in their young minds.

This seed will accompany them throughout their lives and become an important cornerstone for them to establish themselves in the future society.

02 Escort the Future of Children

Without rules, there can be no harmony

In the world of children's growth, "rules" stand firmly in the ocean of family education, guiding them in the right direction.

It is not only a key starting point for shaping children's correct values, but also an important factor in determining their future life direction.

Looking back at the heart wrenching cases of celebrity rollovers in the entertainment industry, they have all sounded the alarm for us with their bloody lessons:

A child who lacks rules and bottom line awareness, even if born with outstanding talents,

In the end, it is highly possible to lose oneself on the long road of life and fall into an irreparable abyss.

Only by making children clearly understand the basic bottom line of being a good person and dealing with others, can they embark on a life journey full of temptations and challenges in the future.

Always maintain a clear mind and take each step steadily and steadfastly.

03 The key to unleashing children's unlimited potential

Famous educator Mr. Chen Heqin strongly advocates, "Whatever children can do on their own, let them do it themselves

In real life, although many parents are well aware of the importance of cultivating their children's self-care ability in theory, they do not know where to start in the actual operation process.

In fact, cultivating children's self-care ability only requires firmly grasping the two core points.

Firstly, one must carefully consider the difficulty level of the matter.

For tasks that children can complete independently based on their own abilities and without any safety hazards, parents can boldly let their children try them out.

Secondly, always pay attention to the level of danger involved.

For example, activities involving the use of knives, gas operations, and other hazardous activities, parents can ensure safety while,

Adopt a gradual approach and gradually guide children to participate.

When parents truly learn to bravely let go and give their children enough space to explore and practice, they will be pleasantly surprised to discover that,

The learning and adaptation abilities hidden in children far exceed our imagination.

04 The key to unlocking a child's financial intelligence

There is a thought-provoking sentence in 'Rich Dad Poor Dad':

Even if you don't teach your child about money, there will inevitably be others who will replace you in this role in the future, and these substitutes may bring unpredictable negative consequences to the child.

In daily life, many parents often fall into two extreme dilemmas when it comes to managing their children's spending.

On the one hand, some parents strictly guard their children's pocket money.

Children who grow up in such excessively oppressive environments are often prone to falling into the vortex of "revenge consumption" as adults,

Attempting to make up for the repressed shortcomings of childhood through unrestrained consumption.

On the other hand, some parents have gone to the other extreme, allowing their children to spend money too freely.

Over time, these children often lack a basic concept of money,

As adults, it is easy to develop the bad habit of spending money recklessly, and even unknowingly become a member of the moonlight tribe or even the loan tribe.

So, how can we guide children to learn how to spend money reasonably? Actually, the method is not complicated.

Firstly, parents can regularly distribute pocket money to their children in fixed amounts. The specific amount can be determined through joint consultation with the child, such as providing a certain amount per week or month.

Secondly, guide children to allocate their pocket money reasonably.

Divide it into three parts, one for meeting daily consumption needs, one for saving and cultivating children's financial awareness, and one for encouraging children to express love, such as donating to charitable organizations, to help children establish correct values.

Finally, it is important to teach children to clearly distinguish between "wants" and "needs".

Before shopping, help children set a total budget and make a detailed shopping list.

By cleverly applying these methods, children can engage in independent shopping practices time and time again,

You will gradually learn how to select and compare products, plan expenses carefully, and cultivate the ability to delay gratification.

In this way, children's financial intelligence will also grow strong like seedlings that have emerged from the ground, nourished by the sunshine, rain, and dew of practical exercises.

05 Conclusion

At every important stage of a child's growth, we must accompany them with sincerity and guide them with the right methods,

Create a growth environment for children that is both warm, caring, and disciplined.

Looking back at the entire article, we explored four key aspects that parents need to pay attention to in the process of parenting: behavioral habits, principles and rules, self-care ability, and ways of spending money.

Parents should recognize their important role in their children's growth, abandon misconceptions, and actively use effective educational methods.

At the same time, we should teach students according to their individual characteristics and focus on cultivating their comprehensive qualities.

Here, I would like to ask all parents: In the process of raising children, which aspect do you think is the most challenging?

Welcome everyone to share and exchange ideas in the comment section, and explore parenting together.

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