Marriage is a family business that can only be understood by those over 30 years old
Marriage is a family business. The economically disadvantaged side is usually a working woman. Providing sexual value and being forced to have a son are their KPIs. Poor women's KPIs also need to increase doing household chores, taking care of parents in law, working outside to earn money, and working until death.
There are no humans who are loyal to marriage, only humans who are forced to be loyal to marriage. Guarding oneself is just about not having enough or too much temptation, or not being able to cheat (depression, sexual dysfunction), or not being able to bear the consequences of cheating (divorce, bankruptcy, social image collapse), or being busy with more exciting and attractive things than cheating (making achievements).
The vast majority of women are forced to get married. The poorer a woman is, the faster she gets married. Only economically and spiritually independent women can withstand the pressure of public opinion not to get married, have the money to support themselves, and have the perseverance to support themselves.
Men love to get married. Because you can get free nannies, free surrogate uterus, and not have to bear the risk of pregnancy disability. Men are eager to form alliances and create public pressure, driving away batches of young women to hastily get married.
There is a fixed amount of money you can earn in your lifetime. Intelligence, emotional intelligence, perseverance, self-control, and other factors set the ceiling. Most people are destined to work because they cannot bear the pressure of entrepreneurship and lack the wisdom to maintain the survival of the enterprise. Most people are exploited because they can only read and cannot understand the contradictions and logic of things.
Sons usually do not empathize with their mothers, but instead recognize their fathers and return to their roots as adults. Because joining the circle of adult men is profitable. Being with my poor mother, all I have is tea, rice, oil, salt, and constant complaints.
Parents don't love you that much, they love themselves the most. Human reproduction has a purpose, mostly to maintain marriage, and secondly requires children to be obedient, controllable, and provide emotional value. Women who cannot give birth will be ruthlessly abandoned. Children are tools of their parents. The mission of the rich's children in life is to inherit their family property; The life mission of poor children is to repay their parents' debts and provide for their retirement.
Life is lonely, lively is temporary, and sweet is temporary. Earning money, preventing oneself from being overwhelmed by loneliness, and enduring illness all rely on oneself.