What is love
In this world, as long as one is not completely celibate, love is almost an experience that everyone will have in their lifetime. It's just that some people love easily, some love wearily, some love lasts forever, and some love was once possessed. In love, the greatness of love lies in its ability to withstand tests, and the highest level of love is the appreciation of mutual affection and understanding.
What is love?
The poet said, love is a flower in front of you, a shimmering breeze, a touch of peach blossom in spring, a strand of concern in autumn, a string of tinkling in summer rain, and a warm sun in winter snow.
Musicians say that love is the sound of a blooming flower, the mystery of a gust of wind, and the projection of a floating cloud. Listen quietly to the fragrance of the heart, filling the blue sky with fragrance and clarifying the heart lake.
Philosophers say that love is the person who enters your life, accompanying you to see the sun, moon, mountains, and rivers, and enjoying the process of life from warmth and romance to simplicity like water.
Although there is no predetermined marriage in this world, that kind of love that falls in love at first sight and is cherished for a lifetime does indeed have a fate like power. The reason why love is beautiful is because it is the silent experience of the soul, the willing understanding and tolerance, the unwavering support in sharing wind and rain, and the touching warmth in the shallow years. Generally speaking, the quality of love depends on the quality of the soul of the lover.
Love, like the season of autumn harvest, cannot be stopped when it comes, cannot be kept when it leaves, when you are not ready yet, it comes, when you gradually get used to it, it leaves. In this year of blooming and falling flowers, every emotion is like this ever-changing weather, unpredictable and unpredictable. Once young and fearless, always wanting to exile that beauty to the ends of the earth. Tianya, in fact, is already far away, far out of reach. Some emotions, like youth, will gradually fade away from you. In the hazy youth, tasting the green fruit, the heart can experience the vicissitudes of life like this season, washed away by lead, and plump and heavy.
Nothing can stop a flower from blooming, just like no one can stop a love. The meaning of life lies in endless growth, and the meaning of love lies in unwavering loyalty. The hardships in life only make strong people stronger, and the twists and turns in love only make loyal hearts closer. The heart has hope, and the autumn water does not feel long; I have hopes in my heart, and even the ends of the earth do not feel distant. Whether in life or in love, what we need is a non impatient wait.
Many people ask, the most important thing in love is to respect each other as guests? Or do we share joys and sorrows together? In fact, the most important thing in love is not to give up. True love is never as simple as saying 'I love you'. It is the deepest and most unforgettable collision of the soul. Without such collision, it would not have stayed forever in the soul, nor would it have been indifferent and fragrant with the passage of time.
The process of love is a long journey. Apart from the flowers and the moon, apart from being affectionate, there are also obligations and responsibilities. Those things may not seem romantic at all, and even heavy, but require you to devote your life's energy. The most genuine and touching love letters are not written on paper, not sung in the mouth, but put into the labor of the family in the group. True love begins with the formation of a family, and everything at the beginning can only be considered as the prelude to love. The rich and wonderful content is revealed in the later chapters of life.
Falling in love with someone is not difficult, the difficult thing is to love someone for a lifetime. The nature of love is to pursue eternity. When two people fall in love, they must do their utmost to defend their love. The survival time of a love, whether long or short, must have a minimum limit, which is the guarantee of the quality of love. Below this limit, no matter how passionate the two feelings are, they can only be considered as temporary infatuation, not love.
Love can either bring about rebirth or destruction. Learn to love correctly, learn to cherish love that is hard won. Because they care, they argue. In fact, the heart of a lover is very fragile and cannot withstand repeated torment. Everyone hopes to be understood, everyone hopes for mutual affection, to be able to tolerate your irrationality and nitpicking, everything stems from the compatibility and tacit understanding of the heart. No matter how far you go, the person who is always by your side is the one who has always been deeply in love. The world is so big, it's not easy to meet someone you like. One turn around can be a farewell forever!
True love is not because of material wealth, nor because of beautiful appearance. Those who love you enough will put down everything and risk everything; Not loving you enough, there are always various reasons. Liking is not love, but love must be liked; True love has no reason, the reason is true love. Loving someone is not a momentary cherish, but a lifelong cherish. The so-called lover is the person who can make you love; The so-called holding hand refers to the person who stubbornly holds hands and refuses to let go. Accompanying you throughout your life is a heart, a heartache, a tolerance, and an unwavering determination. Only by finding someone who truly loves you can you have true happiness!
A good love should have resilience, be able to pull apart, and be constantly torn apart. Learn to look at others with an understanding and appreciative perspective, rather than caring about them with self righteous concern. Love is not about changing each other, but about growing together; Love is not about relying on each other, but about trusting each other. I'm not half of you, and you're not half of me either. I don't belong to you, and you don't belong to me either. We both belong to ourselves. Lovers not binding each other is a sign of mutual confidence in love. No one limits anyone, and in the end, no one can do without anyone. Holding the hand of the child, we grow old together, guarding the wind, flowers, snow, and moon. Through wind and rain, we walk together with ten fingers, accompanying the blooming and withering of flowers. Enduring love originates from genuine love from each other's hearts, built on the basis of equality. Anyone who only cares about crazy love without considering whether they are loved or not, or only enjoys being loved without knowing their true love, will not have a good ending.
The feeling of loneliness in a cup, being poured into boiling water, and the sensation of boiling hot, is the feeling of love. The water has warmed up, and the cup feels very comfortable. This is the feeling of life. The water has cooled down, and the cup is afraid. Perhaps this is the loss of sensation. The water is completely cold, the cup feels uncomfortable, pour out the water. The cup felt comfortable, but accidentally fell to the ground and fell into pieces. I found traces of water on each piece, knowing that I still love water in my heart and want to love it again, but it's impossible.
Love is a gamble that cannot be afford to lose. After placing all the bets, if you win, you will gain lifelong happiness; If you lose, all that remains are scars. There are always some people who know they can't afford to lose, but still want to gamble. They can't be persuaded or stopped - this is the charm of love. I always thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but creating more regrets is just love. Amidst the ups and downs of time, love stories in the world continue to repeat themselves. The taste of love is indescribable, it is incredibly sweet, but it often brings helplessness, melancholy, distress, and sadness. However, these painful experiences are also rich gifts of love, a precious treasure that belongs first to the soul and then to art. The works of great poets from ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, are the best proof.
Perhaps in a woman's life, the most important thing is always marriage. Many women consider the success of marriage as the greatest success in life. In love, women need some degree of admiration for men. If there is not even a trace of admiration, even if a woman falls in love, it is only touching and accommodating. Men should have a little bit of spoiling desire towards women. If they don't even have a little spoiling desire, even if they live a life, they are selfish and indifferent. So sometimes love is simple, it's just that you worship me and I love you. Love is a chemical reaction of the soul. There is an affinity between two people who truly love each other, constantly breaking down, combining, and renewing. The greater the affinity, the more intense and lasting the reaction, and the more passionate and consolidated the love.
Some people say that the greatness of love lies in its ability to withstand tests. What kind of love can withstand the test of time? Many people break up because they love to argue, while others break up because they love to be plain. In fact, the ones who will truly accompany you until old age are those who don't have too many accidents, don't have the same heartbeat as before, but never leave you no matter what. From passion to family affection, from emotion to gratitude, from romance to companionship. The longer it takes, the more unwilling I am to leave you, that's what a lover is!
Many times, love can withstand wind and rain but cannot withstand mediocrity; Friendship can withstand mediocrity but cannot withstand wind and rain. Between the gathering and scattering of fate, there is always a face that cannot be retained; Between joys and sorrows, there are always unexpected goodbyes. Falling in love is easy, but staying together is difficult. True feelings are closest to sadness, and the unfamiliarity within familiarity is farthest. In fact, all true emotions require not momentary tenderness but lifelong companionship. Since I have chosen my peers, I only care about sharing the wind and rain together; Even if it takes a long journey, emotions can only be harvested with persistence.
Not loving someone but wanting to marry them is reality. Loving someone but not being able to marry them is helpless. Life and love are often not on the same track, and in the end, what makes you happy is not because of love, but because of compatibility. No matter what kind of shoes, the most important thing is that they fit well; No matter what kind of marriage, the most wonderful thing is harmony. One should not only seek the luxury of shoes, but also sacrifice their own feet. What others see are shoes, what they feel is feet. Feet are far more important than shoes, this is a truth proven by countless facts. What you like the most may not necessarily be the best; What you think is the best may not necessarily be the most suitable. Only the most suitable one is what you cherish the most.
Love has no absolute right, let alone absolute perfection. Love can be a deep and unbreakable bond between two people, or it can be a resolute determination to eliminate the illusion. Love can be as humble as dust, yet bloom into flowers, or as proud as the end of the world. When love cannot be synchronized, your sincerity is exchanged for the other person's indifference. When the notes you play with your heart do not resonate with them, or when they are clearly in love but repeatedly hurt and speak insincerely. This indicates that love has come to an end. What you need to do is not to try to persuade him, but to pat the dust off your body, smile, and take a breath of fresh air to see him off. I would rather turn around arrogantly than bow my head humbly.
There is a kind of love in life, a kind that understands you, is quiet, and has no expectations. Watching from afar without saying a word; I don't ask for anything in return, I just want love to be there. Love is light, it doesn't disturb each other's worlds, it only walks in the depths of the soul; Love is quiet and does not interfere with each other's lives, only resonating in the spiritual realm. The eyes that can look at each other are the most beautiful scenery; The heart that can know each other is the warmest connection.
Since ancient times, the love that people have pursued is to come together, to be united, but now it is different, love is sometimes not for the sake of getting each other. To love someone is to silently care for them, to quietly put love into each other's hearts, and then secretly miss and think about them all the way, to let our hearts be together for love. This kind of love is not something that is constantly thought and remembered, but something that is absent in the eyes and present in the heart, because both lovers have merged into each other's lives. The most simple love is to have tacit understanding without words, to have longing without thoughts, to see each other warmly, and to be separated without loneliness. Of course, a person can love in this way, but cannot love deeply; We can cherish emotions, but we cannot be persistent. Because deep love is easily hurt, persistence is easy to bear the burden. Maintaining a certain distance is a wise and rational choice.
In fact, beautiful stories have no ending, they are only beautiful because they have no ending. This is just like why tragedy is always more unforgettable than comedy, and also like how people always search for true love, but often brush their shoulders and leave. It's not that this era is far away from love, but that people never thought of using one heart to firmly warm another heart from the beginning. It's not that love is no longer eternal, but a restless and fickle heart!
Love has always been a beautiful and sad thing. Life is always an experience of mixed joys and sorrows. Love, like life, is slowly understood and transformed. When you encounter love in your life, it is destined to grow together with love. Love, stroke by stroke, has been engraved into each other's lives since the very beginning. Years later, even if we accidentally get separated, we will still remember each other. I once loved you, and you also loved me. That's enough.
Love is always a topic that people enjoy endlessly. Throughout history, there have been many poems and phrases that praise love, as well as many touching love stories. Without love, life would be just a simple shell. Life is beautiful because of love. Isn't love a subtle and imperceptible practice for life? Love, what kind of dynamic beauty is it? You dare not turn it on, afraid that its fragrance will run away all at once, afraid that its temperature will disappear all at once, afraid that the back will suddenly be blown away by the wind of reality. It fills people with both desire and contradiction. Both passionate and sorrowful; Both crazy and hesitant. The magma like passion spewing out from the bottom of my heart can only be soothed and calmed by the tide of memories. If the experience of "love" enriches life, then the experience of "love" enriches the soul!
A person who understands you may bring you lifelong love and happiness; A person who doesn't understand you will make you realize a truth: a melon that is forcefully twisted will not be sweet. In a person's life, understanding is more important than love. The true fate is to develop feelings over time. People who like you want your present, your beauty, and the temptations on you; The person who loves you, wants your future, brings you happiness, joy, and promises to grow old together.
A woman's happiness lies in: she truly loves me; A man's happiness lies in: she is worthy of my love.