There are two realms in life: one is knowing, and the other is content!

Throughout one's life, there must be actions and inactions. Whether this can be done or not depends entirely on one's perspective and realm. A middle-aged person who has experienced ups and downs should be able to see the twists and turns of life, understand the difficulties of life, so their lifelong pursuit is no longer just grandiose appearances, but a stable heart. To do useful things, say brave words, think of beautiful things, sleep soundly, not complain about life and one's imperfections, accept the ordinary, and be content in the ordinary, such a state can be called mature. So, it's easy to live a relaxed life, it's just about knowing and being content. Knowing makes people see clearly, contentment brings the heart back to normal.

1. Know Chang Zhi
   The most ideal state of a person's life is nothing more than being a clear minded person. To live, if you have taken many detours, you will be able to endure until the day when the truth is revealed, and you will understand that all the troubles and pains are just because you have too much to ask for and cannot see yourself clearly. After seeing heaven and earth, seeing sentient beings, seeing oneself. Life is a process of constant clarity. With a clear understanding of these four things, one can see the world through. Knowing the importance of interpersonal relationships. A person speaking and doing things too lightly may seem too light, while being too heavy can hurt others and oneself, so understanding the right balance is one of our lifelong challenges. Gao Xiaosong once said on a program, 'It's the hardest thing to know the weight of life.'. Indeed, schools, parents, and friends will teach us many things, but only the "weight" is something that we ourselves struggle to understand in society. Know the urgency of doing things. Clear priorities in life are necessary to distinguish between urgency and urgency. Some things must be done quickly to avoid regrets, while others can be postponed without affecting the overall situation. So, there's no need to be impatient when doing things. Once you've figured it out and thought it through, choosing the right approach will naturally result in twice the result with half the effort. Life knows how to advance and retreat. Whether to advance or retreat is one's own choice, and between them lies the ordinary happiness of life. Many times, we encourage ourselves to strive forward, but sometimes slowing down is for better progress. No matter when, people who can move back and forth freely can also live freely. All things know how to make choices. Let go of the thought and feel at ease. It is impossible for a person to have all the advantages in their life. Only by giving up some can they obtain more crucial gains.
   There is an ancient saying that goes, "In the world, one can attain the dual laws of peace, neither the Tathagata nor the noble." Life is not perfect, and there are no choices, all choices are just a balance between choices. People's understanding of the world improves every day, and there are many things that we cannot control. An understanding person seeks peace of mind beyond these uncontrollable aspects.
2. Satisfaction brings happiness
   Chasing too many desires will naturally lead to exhaustion. The more people experience, the more they understand that happiness is never about material satisfaction, but about inner stability. The ancient saying goes: A family with abundant wealth can only afford three meals in a solar eclipse; There are thousands of rooms in Guangsha, and sleeping at night only takes six feet. No matter what kind of life one chooses, it cannot be perfect, and striving for excellence in everything will result in losing one's own beauty in fame and fortune. In the entertainment industry, Huang Lei, known as the "winner of life", is someone who has a Buddhist mentality towards life. He rose to fame at a young age and was once the most charming and charming prince charming in the hearts of literary and artistic young women born in the 1970s. However, now that he has reached middle age and his figure has improved, he has gained more respect and praise for his stunning intelligence. In the variety show "The Longing Life", he once talked to the guests about "people should be content with what they are". When interviewed by the media, he has repeatedly said that nowadays he can read books, do what he likes, and be accompanied by his wife and daughter, which makes him very content. Having two complete children, a broad heart, a strong physique, a loving husband and wife, and frequent friends, which we consider common, is already sufficient for Huang Lei's life. We originally pursued simple happiness, but we never thought that happiness would become farther and farther away. We only focused on chasing material desires, but forgot that true happiness is right beside us, contentment brings happiness. I have read a book before, in which there is a sentence: "We are always walking, but forget to stop. The small hills on the high hills are the graves reserved for me?" Chasing back and forth, only to get closer and closer to death. And what we desperately pursue, when we leave this world, turns into clouds and smoke of the past. Someone once asked, why do people live?
   It's actually quite simple. People walk through this world to experience it. They come naked and have experienced the ups and downs of life, so they should leave naked. The only way to go is with a contented heart. There is always a balance between desire and life, and this balance is contentment. This world is actually quite simple. When feeling lost, think about your original intention, take it slow, figure out what you really want, and then continue moving forward, in order to avoid taking the wrong path and detours. When you are too tired, think about whether you have carried too much useless pressure and put too much garbage in your heart. What can you use to be happy. Mr. Yang Jiang said, "Heaven will not allow all happiness to be concentrated on one person. Having love does not necessarily mean having money; having money does not necessarily mean having happiness; having happiness does not necessarily mean having health; having health does not necessarily mean everything will come true." Heaven is fair, and all we can do is live happily and freely in our own world. The world belongs to oneself and has nothing to do with others. As long as you can see clearly, you will naturally go smoothly. Encouragement together!