Girls can't catch up with boys, it's not that girls are not outstanding, the reason is that boys haven't grown up
Girls nowadays haven't found a suitable boyfriend, sometimes it's not that they haven't taken action, nor is it that their actions are ineffective. But it's because there are indeed three situations in real life that they can't control.
-1. Gentle girls are more attractive to boys;
Nowadays, girls often perform better than boys in terms of intelligence, ability, and achievements in many social circles. Therefore, if you want girls to show a gentle side, sometimes it's really difficult because their strength doesn't allow it! Many male students in universities now say that if it's simply about academic ability, it's probably just a few female students in the department who rank much higher! This is the truth. Because almost all boys don't care much about their future, they just spend more time idling around.
Speaking of the term 'yin prosperity and yang decline', you may find it a bit sensational and exaggerated! However, every time the school organizes an activity, the vast majority of those who can actively participate are girls! They seem to have endless energy and an inexhaustible passion. Whether it's submissions to radio stations or volunteer activities, their participation rate has always ranked first! No wonder boys sigh: Today's campus is truly dominated by yin and yang!
When it comes to getting married and living a life, men are always the main ones. However, the men in front of us now seem to have no interest in getting married and starting a family, and feel powerless. Due to the fast-paced lifestyle, pursuit of high consumption, and the backward economy of their native families, these are all their weaknesses for boys. And it seems that the parents of many girls around us are all business elites and winners in life! Those girls are all dressed appropriately, with elegant expressions, as if living in a fairy tale world, as if their lives are full of sunshine and without worries. On the other hand, nowadays boys are all dejected and listless, how can they attract girls?
And how can those girls who live very confidently show their tenderness to boys who are not as good as themselves in every aspect? Girls are too lazy to show off because they need a better quality man than themselves! There is such a strong contrast in the real world, where can we find the admiration and tenderness that comes from seeing a high-quality boy we envy? Because at this time, the boys have not yet awakened!
-2. Personalized girls are more likely to attract boys
When a boy one day truly develops a desire from the depths of his heart to truly be independent in this world, he will no longer be as cowardly as before. At this point, he knew what kind of girl he needed, so he no longer let girls choose him like before. He would actively pursue girls.
At this moment, the boy's behavior is completely natural, making the girls around him feel that he is a good man! He exudes a temperament that I am the master of everything in life! If a man reaches this level of maturity, then no matter which girl, she will look at him with new eyes! Because at this time, men view the girls around them not as the center, but as themselves. They feel like a man who can bear all the consequences of life. Capable of bearing all the consequences in life! He will naturally find the girl who suits him. He likes girls who have personality and are suitable for him!
-3. Skilled at arousing boys' jealousy
When boys are not yet mature, girls have already waited for the flowers to wither! This is a very sad reality, so among girls, there is a group of smarter girls who learn to actively flirt with boys and make them passively enter into a romantic mode. Of course, these girls are definitely quite outstanding, and can be said to be the kind of girls who are loved by everyone and bloom like flowers. They will use situational assumptions to guide boys into their virtual world, in order to test whether the boys they like also like them.
They will tell the boy that they already have the scope of consideration for their future husband, or that they have enough imagination for their future husband. They will see if the boy around them is interested in this topic. If the boy around them is interested in this topic, it means that he cares about his position in the girl's mind. He will participate in this topic and be strongly curious about what the girl's future husband will be like? If he is not interested, then it means that the boy doesn't care about the girl in front of him at all.
If this boy has the status of a girl in his heart, then when he finds out that the girl has a boyfriend, he will feel jealous and show disgust because he believes that only he can be worthy of the girl around him, and this girl is actually ignorant of true gold and jade! In this way, he will experience emotional fluctuations and make many abnormal actions.
Smart girls often use this method to best test whether the boy is genuinely treating them. Of course, things in the world are not that simple. Have the girls around you ever actively pursued you? How do you view girls actively pursuing boys? Welcome to leave a message.