Why is love so complicated? The wisdom of traditional Chinese culture teaches you to unlock the concept of happy marriage and love!
In the rapidly developing modern society, love is an indispensable yet elusive emotion for us. What is the essence of love? How can we find true happiness in love? These issues are exactly the topics discussed by Professor Qiu Hongzhong from Guangzhou University of Traditional Chinese Medicine in his recent lecture. The lecture, titled "What is love and where does love belong? - A happy marriage and love view from the perspective of psychology," sparked heated discussions and profound reflections among the participants.
Professor Qiu's lecture attracted the participation of over 220 students and counselors. He delved into the complexity of love from three dimensions: biology, sociology, and psychology, providing attendees with a more comprehensive understanding of this emotion. He emphasized that love is not just a fusion of emotions, but also a delicate balance between individual freedom and social morality and legal order. It is this balance that allows us to pursue happiness in love without losing respect for each other and a sense of responsibility to society.
The professor also cited Chinese classics such as the Book of Songs, the Book of Changes, and the Book of Rites during the lecture, sharing their wisdom on love and marriage. The profound wisdom in these traditional cultures provides us with a new perspective, enabling college students to better understand the relationship between love and happiness. Professor Qiu specifically mentioned that traditional culture should not only be regarded as a historical heritage, but also as a reference and guidance for us when facing modern marriage and love issues.
Another key point is the importance of sexual and mental health. With the opening up of society to this topic, it is recognized that sexual psychological health in love can effectively promote emotional stability and growth. Professor Qiu shared how to establish good communication skills during love, helping couples deepen their understanding in emotions. These practical suggestions have led participants to express that they have gained a lot, and good communication skills can indeed deepen mutual understanding.
In addition, the professor also guides students on how to make wise choices in terms of values and life goals. Currently, many college students feel confused about their future path, and the balance between love and life goals is even more confusing. However, Professor Qiu used his own experience and insights to make students realize that clear self-awareness and shared life goals are important foundations for building a happy marriage.
The end of the lecture is not the end, but the beginning of further reflection on love, happiness, and self. Students expressed that they not only learned rich knowledge about mental health, but also felt the profound heritage of excellent traditional Chinese culture. The Mental Health Education and Counseling Center also stated that it will continue to hold more similar lectures to promote the wisdom of traditional Chinese culture in modern society and help more people embark on a journey of self exploration and emotional growth.
In short, the complexity of love makes it the most captivating part of human emotions. Understanding the essence of love and learning how to seek happiness in love will continuously promote our better understanding of ourselves and others, and build beautiful interpersonal relationships. Professor Qiu's lecture not only provided valuable knowledge for everyone, but also stimulated our in-depth exploration of the true meaning of love and the path to happiness.