Why are men enthusiastic about getting married? Because men benefit more from marriage,
Marriage is altruistic and disadvantageous to her
Chinese men are particularly fond of marriage and cannot do without women.
You can see,
Divorced and widowed men quickly remarry;
Underclass men, even disabled women, cheat and buy marriages, without any choice;
Rich men have many wives and concubines;
Even if they are gay, they should deceive their uterus and engage in a form marriage with a lesbian.
In the subconscious of Chinese men, passing on the family line is their mission. It doesn't matter whether you love your wife or not, it doesn't matter if you have good children, and even if your children are poor for a lifetime, it's okay. Like cockroaches, the more you give birth, the better.
Marriage is the exploitation of her and her descendants
In China, the Marriage Law strictly prohibits dowries, and there is no alimony for divorce, which is equivalent to requiring women to be free surrogates and unpaid child caregivers. Even if divorced, women still have to pay child support, exploit the children they give birth to, and provide for men's retirement until death. One shot brings ten thousand profits.
So, for women, if they can't see the benefits, don't get married. For economically disadvantaged women, it is even more important to be snobbish and shrewd, and not to endure hardship for love. Because of love, it disappears in 2-3 years, and suffering lasts a lifetime.