Whether couples can be together until old age is predetermined by heaven

Marriage is not eternal, and it is full of variables.

Marriage is a choice in life. Some people choose to enter into marriage, but also choose to leave because they can't bear it anymore.

Some people choose marriage from the beginning with a purpose, just to use the other person, but after being seen by the other person, it is destined to be unsustainable.

Marriage requires sincerity, sincerity, alignment of values, mutual respect and tolerance, timely communication, mutual trust, and mutual assistance in order to walk together until the end.

Managing a marriage between spouses requires not only mutual adjustment between the two individuals, but also their values and attitudes towards marriage.

In fact, whether couples can be together until old age is already predetermined by heaven, as can be seen from these three o'clock.

1、 Inconsistent values are destined to not go far.

Whether a couple can walk together until the end depends on whether their values are consistent. Two people with different values naturally cannot reconcile, leading to conflicts. Neither person allows the other, and both feel that they are right and want to do things according to their own ideas. This will naturally make life uncomfortable.

Two people who get along well with each other tend to align their values. When faced with situations, they can share the same views, respect each other's ideas, and reach consensus, thereby reducing conflicts.

Couples with incompatible values are prone to arguments, lack understanding and respect for each other, making it difficult to get along.

Just like a woman giving up her job to have a child, when she had promised a man that she would return to the workplace after the child grew older, when the woman decided to return, the man's perspective changed and he began to oppose and deny her, not wanting her to go out. And if a woman feels that she is ready and has passed the interview, but their perspectives are different, disputes may arise.

So, when looking for a partner, you need to find someone with similar values in order to walk together to the best.

2、 We no longer trust each other.

Once a couple begins to distrust each other and develop suspicion, no matter what the other says or does, they will no longer trust each other. They will still secretly track each other, or have someone monitor each other's every move, or start liking to eavesdrop on your speech, or secretly pick up your phone to look through it, which is a lack of trust in you.

So, when two people start to doubt each other and no longer trust each other, over time, the relationship will gradually break down, leading to the end of the marital relationship.

Just like Gao Ping in "Happy Reunion", when he started calculating to move forward, he felt something was wrong and secretly observed him, only to realize that he was behind all this and eventually filed for divorce.

Only with mutual trust between husband and wife can we walk together until the end.

3、 Not grateful, crossing the river and tearing down the bridge.

Gao Ping in "Good Reunion" is an ungrateful person who does not know how to be grateful for his wife's efforts towards him, but instead takes advantage of her from the beginning.

The reason why he is with Xiangqian and enters into marriage is because Xiangqian has the ability, high income, and can provide for his education, as well as buy him a car and give him a good life.

When he resigned and started taking postgraduate and doctoral exams, he always used his own money to support him. However, after graduating with his doctoral degree, he began to think about leaving Xiangqian and planned for his own departure. He used his wits to deliberately create conflicts with Xiangqian, and then asked Xiangqian to divorce himself. He began to find a way out and prepare for his departure.

Gaoping just doesn't know how to be grateful. When he crosses rivers and bridges, he ruthlessly leaves after finding a better tree. Therefore, it's natural that the relationship between husband and wife cannot last long.

Mo Yan once said, "A thousand miles of marriage is tied by a single thread, and a lifetime of love is a combination of heaven and earth

Whether a couple can be together until old age is predetermined from the beginning. I hope everyone can cherish their fate and sleep together for a hundred years.