How should we view love and marriage in the era of leftover men and women?

As we grow older, our experiences continue to enrich.

The selfless and unwavering dedication of youth seems to be becoming increasingly scarce.

The sincerity of the past has gradually become blurred under the polishing of life.

Instead, people weigh the pros and cons more when facing relationships and marriage, and choose a lifestyle of living together.

On this issue, men seem to be more accepting of this reality than women.

Women, on the other hand, often have higher expectations and are more idealistic about love and marriage.

Some women cannot recognize their own situation and blindly pursue perfect love, resulting in wasting time;

Some women, although aware of reality, still refuse to settle for it and would rather be single than enter the siege of marriage.

As a result, an increasing number of older single men and women have emerged in society.

In this context, some girls earn a monthly salary of 3000 yuan, yet they consider themselves excellent.

They pursue a high-quality life, just like famous brand bags and cosmetics, but as a result, they are unable to make ends meet every month.

Some men earn a monthly salary of 8000 yuan, but feel that they are not worthy of dating because they do not have a car or a house, and worry that they do not have the ability to support their families.

In the eyes of some women, such men are simply worthless.

They believe that such a man cannot even support his excellent self, how can he bring happiness to himself?

This is an important reason for the phenomenon of leftover women.

However, we need to reflect on whether this overly materialistic view of marriage is really beneficial to our happiness?

In today's increasingly affluent material conditions, should we re-examine our values and give love and marriage a purer positioning?