Those with different values will never be the same person!

The three values do not align and do not make friends. "The Book of Changes states:" Same voice corresponds, same spirit seeks each other. "People can become friends by sharing the same interests, that is, by approaching things from a similar perspective and viewpoint. True friends should have common interests, hobbies, and even ideal pursuits, or in other words, friends should be like-minded. On the contrary, ancient people referred to it as' different paths, no strategy ', and in modern terms, it is called' incompatible values, no friendship '. The three values are worldview, values, and outlook on life. People who have incompatible values are unlikely to be friends and cannot be forced to be friends.
Birds of a feather flock together. Three perspectives are the biggest obstacle between people! People with incompatible values find it difficult to have any intersection or spark a conversation. A brief exchange of pleasantries is acceptable, but if we spend more time together, it becomes like talking to each other like chickens and ducks. Both parties find it boring and may even hurt each other. There is a fable that says the frog and the mouse became friends and wanted to be together all the time. So they tied their feet together.

At first, they walked normally on the ground and could even eat millet. When they arrived at the pond, the frog jumped into the water and dragged the mouse down. The frog was playing happily in the water, while the poor mouse couldn't swim and drowned. Finally, the body of the mouse floated to the surface, its feet still bound to the frog. An eagle discovered a mouse and rushed to the surface, grabbing it. The frog was also lifted out of the water and became the eagle's delicacy. Close contact between people with different values is like the frog and mouse in a fable, which only brings harm to both sides. Forget about the heart that cannot be touched, there is no need to exert effort to figure it out; If you can't see clearly, stay away and don't bother guessing. Life is short and energy is limited. We should focus all our efforts on the people we love and the ones we get along with. For those friends who have different aspirations and paths, we can choose to quietly leave. After all, no one's life is without someone. When it comes to dealing, communication comes second, and the important thing is to have the same path, that is, the "three values" should be in harmony.

02 The road is open to the sky, and it is not easy for people to understand each other, especially for those with significant differences in ideas. Greedy people can never understand that some people treat money like floating clouds, and snobbish people can never believe that some people can treat others equally. People tend to use their own inner thoughts as a standard to analyze and judge others. If someone's words and actions are inconsistent with their own inner standards, they will think that others are putting on airs and being extremely hypocritical. This is really self righteous! In this world, there are always some people who don't like you. It's okay, you take your own path, I cross my single plank bridge, as long as we are safe and sound. Friends, there's no need to force us. If we share the same feelings, we can get along sincerely. If we can't stand it, we can just brush our sleeves and leave. The road is open to the sky, with each side taking its own path. Don't invite too many people into your life. If they can't enter your heart, they will only mess up your life. Life doesn't need too much accompaniment. With more friends who have different values, the more lively it is, the more lonely it feels.

03 Different circles, there is no need to forcefully integrate. Humans are social animals, how can they leave the group and survive alone? This is the necessity of the existence of circles. For us ordinary people, those with similar ways of dealing with things and consistent values are naturally in the same circle, helping each other, advancing and retreating together. If we walk together all the way, we will sail together through thick and thin; If we are just passing by each other, let's just smile lightly, without saying much, for the sake of mutual benefit, and for the sake of mutual benefit, we will part ways; Intersection of forces, defeat of forces leads to decline; Intersection of power, abandonment if power is lost; Intertwine with emotions, but if emotions are severed, it hurts; Only through the intersection of hearts can it become long-lasting. Friends are not many, but rather whether we can share the same path, whether we can know each other's hearts. If we share the same path, we can walk together, and if we know each other's hearts, we can trust each other. Of course, shared aspirations do not mean exactly the same, but rather seeking common ground while reserving differences and accommodating each other. Life is like a moving train, with people boarding and disembarking one after another along the way. You will encounter people of all kinds, some just pass by, some will stay briefly, and some will accompany you until the finish line. When someone is about to get off the car, you can watch their back gradually disappear, but there is no need to chase after them. Because separation will not make you gradually drift apart; And the three perspectives are the farthest distance between you.