Despite being only a hundred years old, one often harbors worries for a thousand years; Pepsi starts from the heart, a smile relieves a thousand sorrows.
Lin Yutang said: In life, it's not just about sometimes smiling at others and sometimes making them laugh.
Life is too short, there is no time for regrets. If you have laughed before, you will understand that in the world of wind and rain, mountains and rivers will eventually meet.
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A smile is a beauty that grows on the face
Life is like a mirror, you cry to it, and it cries to you too. If you want it to smile at you, the only way is to smile at it.
A child said to his mother, "Mom, you look so beautiful today
Mother asked, "Why
The child said, "Because Mom wasn't angry today
Having beauty is simple, as long as you don't get angry; Beauty is simple, just smile more.
The poet Tagore once said: When a person smiles, the world falls in love with them.
No matter when or where, not getting angry is the beautiful wisdom!

Two smiles are the passport to interpersonal relationships
Shelley said: Laughter is a symbol of benevolence, a source of happiness, and a medium of closeness to others. With laughter, human emotions communicate.
There are several small restaurants downstairs, and their business is generally not good, except for one that is very popular.
After eating a few times, I knew the reason.
That restaurant with good business, no matter how difficult the customers are, the owner always wears a smile on his face, as if he enjoys the process very much.
Once I encountered a very difficult customer. As soon as the dish was served, the customer shouted loudly, "This dish has no taste at all, how can you eat it
The shop owner also calmly explained with a smile, 'Actually, this flavor is a popular taste. As long as the customer doesn't give any instructions, our dishes are all of this flavor.'.
If you find it difficult to swallow, we can make a new one for you. When you come next time, you can say hello in advance and we will make it according to your taste
No matter what the guest's attitude was, there was always a smile on his face, but in the end, it was the guest who felt embarrassed.
Seeing this, I finally understood the owner's business strategy.
As the saying goes, "Don't hit a smiling person with your hand, and don't curse a foodie with your mouth open
His biggest signature is the smile on his face, which is also his best advertising slogan. Good business is also a natural thing.
Smart people understand the power of a smile. A person's smile can make others feel refreshed and happy, while anger can only intensify conflicts and make things worse.

Bring three smiles home
There is never a shortage of happy families in this world, what is lacking are those who do not understand the art of entering the door.
A simple smile, when shown to others, will warm them up; If you show it to the family, it will make the family more harmonious.
I couldn't help but wonder, why does the smile at the moment of entering the house have such great 'power'?
American social psychologist Luckins discovered the famous "primacy effect", which refers to the first impression left in interpersonal communication occupying a dominant position in the mind.
Although it's not the first time family members meet, the 'primacy effect' also plays a role.
Going home is a 'reunion' with family, which determines how they judge your state of mind for the day, and throughout the night, this judgment will dominate your mind, affecting your emotions and behavior.
So, it is necessary for everyone to manage their face before entering the house.
Unload tired, angry, and sad expressions and update them into relaxed, joyful, and relaxed faces.
Once a person has a smile, angry, complaining, and sad words often become difficult to say. Even with bad news, a smile on the listener's face can make them feel that 'this is not a fatal problem', and instead they will think positively about things.
Family is a mirror to us. When one person smiles, others can also be infected.
A smile at home is the best gift to give to family.
Our small team is searching for mines in northwest Yunnan. The small team consists of 8 people, including 4 security guards each equipped with a submachine gun. One day, before departure, a Naxi fellow villager took our car to Weixi. That day, there was a lot of snow on the road, and the road surface under the snow was bumpy and uneven. The car would be stopped by the snow dock after driving for a while. We have to frequently come down to push the cart. Just as we got off the cart again, a group of brownish yellow things slowly approached us. When we were in a state of suspicion and speculation, the Naxi villagers shouted urgently, "Hurry up, hurry up and get on the car, it's a pack of wolves." The driver Xiao Wang quickly started the car and increased the throttle... Unfortunately, the wheels were just spinning in place and couldn't move forward at all. At this moment, the wolf pack had approached the car... Everyone could see clearly - eight wolves, each like a calf, with their bellies hanging high. Warrior Xiao Wu picked up his submachine gun, and the Naxi fellow villager seized Xiao Wu's loot with one hand. He spoke calmly and said, "We can't shoot. Once the gun rings, they'll either crawl under the car or into the woods. The wolf pack will bite the tires and surround us, and then howl to gather more wolves to fight with us." He continued, "The wolves are starving. They're looking for food. Is there food in the car?" We almost answered in unison, "Yes." "" Then throw it down for them to eat. "The fellow villagers seemed to give orders. I have never experienced such a thing before. At that time, my mind was blank, except for nervousness, my brain seemed to have lost the ability to think about problems. After hearing from our fellow villagers, we didn't hesitate to throw down a portion of the cured meat, ham, and precious deer roe we bought from Lijiang. The wolf pack's eyes turned red as they excitedly roared and pounced on the food, biting and swallowing in large bites. The thing they had just thrown down was eaten up in the blink of an eye. The fellow villager continued to command, 'Throw some more!' The second batch of about 50 pounds of meat products flew out of the rear car door, and in just one pack of cigarettes, they were completely devoured by eight wolves. After finishing their meal, the eight wolves sat neatly and stared at the rear car door. At this moment, the few of us were breathing on each screen, our nervous palms were covered in cold sweat, and we could even hear the sound of our own heartbeats clearly... We didn't know what way to break out of the wolf pack. Seeing this situation, the fellow villager spoke up again, "Is there anything else? Leave it behind without leaving a trace. If you want to save your life, don't worry about these things!" At this moment, besides nervousness, fear, and shame! As soldiers, we have a responsibility to protect these materials, even if it means sacrificing ourselves. But the reality is that our car has been docked in the snow and cannot get out, so we can only be trapped inside the car. Our bullets are extremely limited, and once a wolf pack is summoned, we will be even more helpless. We glanced at each other, hesitated for a moment, and neither of us said anything. We reluctantly threw all the meat and more than a dozen packets of cookies off the car! Eight wolves are another big chew. After finishing the meat, they tentatively sniffed the dozen or so packets of biscuits, but didn't eat them. At this moment, I clearly saw that the wolf's belly had already turned round, and its previously fierce and ferocious gaze had become gentle. One of the wolves circled around the car twice, while the other seven wolves remained motionless. In a moment, the wolf led its pack towards the forest Something incredible happened... In no time, eight wolves emerged from the pine forest, holding branches in their mouths and placing them under the two rear wheels of the car. We can't believe our eyes... These wolves are trying to use tree branches to help us lift the tires and drive our car out of the snow pit. I burst out laughing excitedly... haha... just after laughing twice, another soldier quickly covered my mouth with his hand, afraid that this sudden laughter would startle the wolf. Then, all eight wolves crawled under the car, but saw snow flying on both sides of the car. Tears rolled in my eyes as I shouted to Xiao Wang, 'The wolf is helping us clear the snow. Hurry up and start the car.' The car started, but before taking two steps, it slipped again. The wolf repeated its previous action: 'First, place tree branches under the wheels, and then scrape the snow...'. So, with each repetition, the car moved forward for about ten times. The last time, the car smoothly moved forward for over a mile and approached the mountaintop. Going further ahead is the downhill road. At this moment, eight wolves were sitting in a row behind the car, with one of them slightly ahead of the other seven wolves. The fellow villager said, "The one in front is just a wolf. He came up with all the ideas." We were extremely excited and applauded the wolves together, waving to them vigorously. But these 8 cute wolves didn't react much to our actions, just fixed their gaze on us. Then, the first wolf was in front, followed by the others, slowly walking up the mountain and disappearing into the pine forest After reading it, I can't bear to think: even fierce wolves know how to repay kindness, should we reflect on ourselves? As humans who claim to be the "primates of all things", should we fill this world with love?
No matter how short life is, we should live with a smile, enjoy with a smile, and suffer with a smile. Only then can we live our lives in vain.
There is no one in the world who is not hurt. The only one who can truly heal oneself is yourself.
Everything starts from the heart, a smile can relieve a thousand worries. Time is not easy to age, we are forever young!

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