The consequences of women excessively accommodating men are so shocking

Being good to someone is okay, but never too good.
Especially for women, understanding tolerance is acceptable, but not forgiving everything; Knowing how to make concessions is possible, but not everything can be compromised.
Otherwise, the better you treat someone, the more reckless they will be in front of you.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said:

If a woman becomes better and more enthusiastic, tolerant, and submissive towards a man, then that man will become the one who cherishes you the least in the world
Human nature is like this. To gain the love and respect of the other party, one must first have their own bottom line, rather than blindly compromising and pleasing them.
Therefore, women with high emotional intelligence have learned to "protect themselves" in love!

01 Please yourself, not others
The highest way of life for a woman is not to rely on a man, but to please herself.
Who are you, what should you do, what will your future look like... These should all be decisions made by yourself, and no one's words count.
No one is worth your humble flattery, the only thing that should be cherished the most is yourself.
Especially in love, one must learn to maintain self independence. This is not selfishness, but respect for oneself, and more importantly, care for emotions.
After all, true love begins with self love. How can someone who doesn't even love themselves expect others to cherish them for a long time?
I remember in Jane Eyre, when faced with Mr. Rochester's proposal, Jane Eyre did not lose herself because of love, but firmly said:
I am poor, humble, and not beautiful, but when our souls cross the grave and stand before God, we are equal
In love, women often fall into a misconception that through endless effort and obedience, they can win more love and appreciation from their partner.
But the fact is often the opposite, when the self becomes a tool to please others, its value gradually diminishes.
Only by learning to give and keeping a sky for oneself can love grow stronger and stronger.
Never forget, loving yourself is the beginning of lifelong romance.

02 Believe that you are a princess, not a servant
Many women unconsciously play the role of "servants" in love, taking care of each other meticulously while ignoring their own needs and feelings.
However, true love should be an equal dialogue between two hearts, rather than unconditional obedience from one to the other.
Remembering the scene in Titanic where Ruth broke free from the constraints of high society and flew with Jack at the bow of the ship is a symbol of her self awakening.
She is no longer a pawn in the family alliance, but the master of her own destiny.
In love, we should also believe that we are worthy of respect and love, rather than blindly accommodating and tolerating.
Women should be as confident and noble as princesses, not only in appearance, but also in the depths of their hearts.
This means we need to have the courage to express our needs and feelings, reject unreasonable demands, and defend our boundaries.
Only in this way can we maintain an equal attitude in love and win the respect and cherish of the other party.

03 Maintain your own pace and refuse to compromise at will
In the fast-paced modern life, love seems to have also been pressed the fast forward button.
But true love requires time to slowly savor and adjust to the differences between both parties.
Women should not arbitrarily change their pace of life and values in order to cater to each other.
The saying 'A gentleman is different in harmony.' Although it comes from the Analects, it also applies to romantic relationships.
In love, both parties should respect each other's differences, maintain their own pace and style, and work together to create harmony rather than blindly accommodating and compromising.
Of course, maintaining oneself does not mean being stubborn or refusing to communicate. But it is necessary to find a balance point that is acceptable to both parties on the basis of understanding and respect.
Only by bravely adhering to one's principles and dreams, while also giving the other person enough space and support, can love become more beautiful through mutual understanding.

Investing in oneself is eternal insurance
Although love is beautiful, it is not the entirety of life.
So women should always be vigilant - no matter what kind of relationship they are in, investing in themselves is the wisest choice.
This includes but is not limited to knowledge, skills, health, mentality, and other aspects.
Many successful women, such as Dong Mingzhu and Yang Lan, have achieved brilliant success in their careers and also have happy families.
Their stories tell us that a constantly improving and self perfecting woman can not only earn respect and recognition from society, but also maintain lasting attraction in love.
In the long river of love, women should not become the role that is increasingly overlooked as they put in more effort.
On the contrary, we should learn to please ourselves, believe in our own value, maintain our own pace, and continue to invest in ourselves.
Only in this way can one maintain an independent attitude in love, win the respect and long-term cherish of the other party.
Remember, the best love is a journey of mutual growth and achievement between both parties.