Never tie your own head to someone else's waistband

Recently, a car accident has once again been discussed by everyone.
A ride hailing driver in Mianyang, Sichuan collided with a motorcycle traveling straight behind while making a U-turn.
Two cars collided in an instant, and the motorcycle driver flew out and fell heavily to the ground.
Eyes closed, unconscious, with a puddle of blood on the ground
Although he was promptly taken to the hospital, unfortunately, due to a traumatic brain injury, he passed away after 18 days of rescue.

After his death, the police visited his family and found that his life was very difficult.
There is an elderly person in their 70s and a pair of children under them, one is 7 years old and the other is 11 years old.
He, who is just 37 years old this year, is the only source of income for his entire family.
He left, and the family's economy was also cut off.
And what about the ride hailing driver who hit him?
Although he has been actively handling the situation afterwards, reporting to the police immediately, paying for medical expenses, and comforting the family of the motorcycle driver.
But in reality, his situation is also very bad.
He suffered from bladder cancer, and had just finished the operation a year before the accident.
After discharge, I have been wearing a urine bag all year round.
In order to treat his illness, he has already spent all his money and borrowed from all his relatives. This ride hailing car was finally obtained by him.
It is also the only source of his living expenses.
Now, I haven't made much money and my life is still a problem, but I have taken a life on my back.
It's hard not to be moved.
Even more innocent among them are the female passengers on the ride hailing service that day.
She is already over four months pregnant.
This is the child she waited for day and night after eight years of marriage, underwent eight months of IVF, and spent 200000 yuan to get.
On the day of the accident, she had just returned from a prenatal examination at the hospital.
In order to protect the child in her belly, she was already careful enough and didn't take the bus. She specifically took a taxi.
The prenatal examination result was very good that day, and the baby's small hands and feet could already be seen in the B-ultrasound image.
She had originally planned to go to the countryside to have a baby and give birth to this child safely.
Unfortunately——
The huge impact and shock caused her to bleed on the spot.
Although she has been maintaining a difficult bed inversion posture since being sent to the hospital.
This position is the most difficult and challenging among all the positions for maintaining pregnancy. I spit out when I drink or eat
Unfortunately, the child was still unable to be saved.
What is even more heartbreaking is that after analyzing the video, the traffic police found that——
In fact, this car accident could have been completely avoided.
First was the motorcycle driver, who was supposed to take the far right lane, but he didn't. He took the middle lane.
That day, he didn't wear a helmet either.
When the ride hailing car made a U-turn, it was possible to clearly see the approaching motorcycle, but he did not apply the brakes.
Motorcycle drivers will definitely stop when gambling on ride hailing services.
The ride hailing driver is betting that the motorcycle will definitely slow down.
As a result, by the time they all reacted, it was already too late.
With a bang, the accident happened.
Accident determination: The ride hailing driver bears primary responsibility, while the motorcycle driver bears secondary responsibility.
But this car accident destroyed three families.
Three thin hemp ropes, tangled together, broke.
How can it not make people sigh.
I once read a question: Why do many people still take risks even though they know it's not right?
Gaozan replied, 'Perhaps I mistakenly thought I would be lucky once.'.
Yeah, everyone has a lucky mentality.
I always feel that I am smarter than others, that those small probability events that happen will not happen to me, and that I will not be punished.
Little do they know that although probability exists, once it happens to oneself, the small probability event will become 100%.
And you must have seen many similar incidents as well.
At the beginning of this year, a motorcycle collision occurred in a tunnel in Chongqing.
Watching the video at that time, I couldn't help but feel a wave of heartache.
The cause of the accident was that the speeding motorcycle collided with a motorcycle traveling in the opposite direction.
Four people were killed on the spot.
The party involved in the accident is male internet celebrity Zhuang Muqing, who is in the process of career advancement. He is only 21 years old this year, and there is a female companion of similar age sitting in the back seat.
Although they took safety measures and wore helmets and protective gear at the time, according to netizens, their speed was as high as 160 kilometers per hour.
What is the concept of size 160?
It's like flying when you drive out, you can't see the road ahead clearly, and you can't brake quickly.
In legal terms, this already falls under the category of serious speeding behavior.
The two people driving in the opposite direction are only 16 years old this year and have not yet obtained a motorcycle driver's license.
Driving without a license is also a serious illegal act.
Who would have thought that they, who should have been at their best age, would end up sacrificing their most beautiful lives due to a stroke of luck or negligence.
After Zhuang Muqing's incident, in order to avoid the account being reclaimed, Zhuang's father took over his son's account and occasionally shared his child's past videos.
The phrases' Come back quickly, my child 'and' I dare not expect anything else, I only hope to see you in my dreams' are heartbreaking.
Yeah, if time could be turned back, who wouldn't want to go back to that day and remind their loved ones not to drive too fast.
No matter what you do, just live safely.
Unfortunately, time never gives us the opportunity to regret.
We have no intention of blaming those who have passed away, but we hope that more people can be more rational and take fewer chances when encountering similar situations.
Because ignoring rules is the root of danger and tragedy.
Adhering to rules and guarding the bottom line of safety.
As stated in the comment:
A true veteran driver will never consider what road rights are.
Good driving skills don't depend on how many times you've stuck in line or crossed a few yellow lights along the way, but on whether you can safely get home every time.
Yeah, there may be a few times in life when one takes risks, and there may also be a few times when one narrowly escapes.
But it must be noted that not everyone will have such good luck every time.
This life of a person——
Life, only once.
Life must always be held in one's own hands.
I watched a video of a boy riding a bicycle on the street late at night, running a red light without anyone around.
And just as he rode over, a car behind him whizzed past.
The driver next to him saw it and was very worried, so he caught up with him after the green light.
Ask him why he ran a red light? Why rush to cross the road?
I didn't expect the boy to apologize immediately.
The driver became even angrier when he heard this. He couldn't bear to watch a well behaved child lose their life in vain because of such unruly behavior.
He felt obligated to act as an educator, so he continued saying:
You haven't done anything wrong to me, what you're sorry for is yourself, and what you're sorry for is your parents.
What's the point of running a red light? Just showing off, right? Did you see how close the car was to you just now?
Do you know what would happen to your parents if that car hit you just now? Do you know that they will cry to death?
Don't joke about your own life
Although the words may be rough, the reasoning is self-evident.
As a driver, he must have seen many traffic accidents and must know the consequences of the boy continuing like this.
Once the mentality of luck is formed, it is equivalent to walking on the edge of danger and laying a thunderbolt for future life.
You should know that the establishment of rules is not just to constrain us, but to protect more people from harm.
Fan Deng once shared a story:
Why does a flight attendant have to open the door countless times, but before each opening, two people must hold a piece of paper, one person recites one, the other person repeats one, does one action, recites another, repeats one action, and does another action?
It's simple, because this cautious approach can eliminate inertia.
Because on an airplane, even a small rule setting can affect the safety of the entire crew and passengers.
This is not trouble, this is life-saving.
There are many similar rules——
The "no swimming" sign erected by the sea.
The maximum driving speed set on the road.
The warning sign "No getting off" set up in the wildlife park.
There has even been more discussion recently about "wearing a leash when walking dogs
Do you think they are all baseless assumptions, just to add trouble to us?
no
Every regulation related to safety is summarized through bloody life lessons.
You should know that a person's life is never one or two adventures, but a long experience.
Your life really can't resist those repeated jokes.
I watched a video:
A grandfather took his grandson into the subway station to take a bus.
Who knew, the little grandson mischievously followed his grandfather through the gate and escaped the ticket checkpoint.
Grandpa turned around and found his grandson right behind him, quickly asking him:
Did you swipe your card
After learning that his grandson did not swipe his card, the grandfather patiently advised him and took off his backpack, asking him to go out and swipe his card before coming in.
Someone said, as for? It's just that I didn't swipe my card once and didn't have much money.
But for children's education, it's not as simple as a few dollars.
A parent's disregard may bring greater indulgence to the child.
A parental restraint can plant a seed of reverence for rules in a child's heart.
At a sharing session, Yu Minhong expressed his viewpoint: Why should we teach children rules and principles?
It's simple, because children will definitely enter society, where there must be common rules and principles to follow.
If a child doesn't learn, he will hit walls everywhere.
The result of hitting walls everywhere is either his emotions going to extremes or losing confidence in himself.
And both of these things will bring lifelong harm to children.
Isn't it the same for adults who grow up?
Some people say that only when the cost is painful enough, people will learn to remember.
But do we really need a painful price? Do we really need incurable pain?
Smart people understand——
The key to being a good person is to seek benefits and avoid harm.
A gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall.
So, before doing anything, it's worth considering the constraints of rules.
When feeling lucky, consider whether you can afford the consequences of this matter.
Don't use your own life to sound the alarm for others.
Do not add sadness to your family and leave regrets for yourself.
At the end of the article, I would like to ask you: What benefits do you think following rules has brought to yourself? What rule breaking behaviors can you least tolerate?
Let's talk about it together in the message section.
May we all abide by established rules and enjoy freedom within our scope.
Only by following the rules can the probability of insecurity be minimized.
Respecting life is the key to living a healthier life under the sun.
Respect and rule first.
Encourage together.