Love that easily develops feelings over time

We all think that as long as both men and women spend enough time together, it's only a matter of time before they develop feelings.

But later I realized that the budding of love requires not only the nourishment of time, but also the beautiful coexistence between two people.
Not all childhood sweethearts can eventually develop into lovers, and some people, even if they are together from birth, may not necessarily have a romantic development in the end.
What can truly make both men and women develop feelings over time is their interaction with each other. Only good relationships can drive the development of emotions and allow love to flourish.
When you are still wondering why you cannot develop feelings for good friends over time, you should actually take a look at the way you interact with each other.
Getting along is the key to emotional development, and most men and women who are prone to developing feelings over time tend to do so.
Being able to confide and listen to each other during interactions
Some men and women are able to develop feelings over time because they are able to confide and listen to each other when they are together.
I believe everyone has something they want to say in their heart, but they haven't been able to find someone who can patiently listen to their inner voice, so they haven't expressed it yet.
If someone could listen quietly at this moment, anyone would have a great desire to confide and be willing to say everything hidden in their heart.
If two people can communicate with each other heart to heart, the distance between them will be closer. In the process of confiding and listening to each other, the distance between two hearts will narrow, and the relationship will flourish.
Talking and listening are prerequisites for deep communication, and the deeper the communication between two people, the greater the possibility of developing feelings.
If you also have friends who want to develop feelings over time, please listen and confide more in each other during the process of getting along. Exchange your initiative for his initiative, so that you can have a more comfortable relationship.
Good communication combined with good relationships is the key to driving emotional development. It won't be long before this continues, and both of them will develop feelings for each other.
Being able to achieve mutual understanding and tolerance when interacting with each other
The difference between good and bad relationships in interpersonal communication is actually due to varying degrees of understanding and tolerance.
Those two people who have never been able to establish understanding and have not been able to tolerate each other in their interactions will always be just ordinary friends and will not have further development.
On the other hand, those men and women who have always been tolerant and understanding of each other, although they were just ordinary friends at the beginning, got along more harmoniously because of their deeper understanding and wider tolerance towards each other.
Harmonious coexistence further promotes the development of emotions, and both parties can gain long lost understanding and tolerance from each other, which will strengthen their attachment to each other.
This kind of attachment is actually a sign of inner turmoil. The deeper the attachment between each other, the greater the possibility of developing feelings over time.
Most men and women who can understand and tolerate each other when interacting with each other will develop feelings over time.
Understanding and tolerance themselves are the foundation for driving emotional development. With more understanding and tolerance, perhaps we don't have to spend too much time together, and we can develop strong feelings for each other.
Being able to care for and help each other when interacting with each other
Friends still need to care for and help each other, let alone lovers. Men and women who have always cared for and helped each other not only establish deep friendships, but also easily develop emotions.
Caring is originally a way of conveying emotions. In the process of caring for each other, both people can feel the continuous warmth coming from each other, and they will immerse themselves in it, getting deeper and deeper.
The care of one person is not enough to drive the development of a relationship, but the mutual care of two people can make the relationship develop rapidly.
Besides caring, helping is also a way to foster emotions. In the process of mutual assistance, the dependence and connection between each other will become stronger.
If two people want to develop feelings over time, they should show more care and help when getting along. This is a shortcut to the path of happiness, and everyone should not miss it.
Deep care and wholehearted help are essential elements of a relationship, and if two people can achieve these from the beginning, the development of their relationship will also be more rapid.
I just realized that it's not as easy as I imagined for two people to develop feelings over time, but rather requires certain prerequisites.
If two people have been only interacting with each other in a normal friend's way, and even have little contact, then no matter how long they have known each other, they may not necessarily develop feelings over time.
Long term love cannot be separated from mutual confiding and listening, mutual understanding and tolerance, mutual care and help between two people. Only when three men and women interact with each other, is it more likely to develop feelings over time.
If you want to develop feelings for friends over time, you also need to start from these three aspects. Only by doing these three things well can the development of emotions be as you wish.