Hand in hand progress, grow together, this is the best form of love.
My best friend Leizi broke up with his girlfriend again last night, but this time it was a complete breakup.
Leizi and his girlfriend have been watching us all the way. His girlfriend is at a famous school next door and was reportedly admitted with high scores. Lei Zi often proudly and awkwardly "boasts" in front of us. How did he pursue the beauty of Bai Fu? There are activities in the school department, and he occasionally brings his girlfriend to participate.
After four years of college life and nearly a year of work, they have been together for almost five years. In the university campus where love and breakups coexist, Lei Zi and his girlfriend can be together for nearly five years, which is not easy. We often make fun of him and ask when he can invite us to a wedding banquet. But now it's all over.
They broke up a few times before, but eventually got back together. Every time Lei Zi reunites, he assures us that:
In the future, you must work hard and never fish for three days and sunbathe for two days. Don't play games all night and affect your work the next day. The game time is limited to a maximum of 2 hours per day
But every time Leizi can guarantee that his chronic illness will recur soon after. It has been almost a year since graduation, and he has completely changed four jobs, three of which were found by his family through connections. Every time he resigns, Leizi complains that the salary is low and he is not allowed to play games, and the old man no longer serves him! I basically don't reflect on myself.
On the contrary, looking at his girlfriend, who graduated with him to find a job, her current job is not stable, not to mention being a small leader in their department. In addition, she also prepares for graduate school exams in her spare time, but Leizi has no intention of following in her footsteps.
In college, as girls have not yet stepped out of society, they can still tolerate Lei Zi's lack of ambition, so the problem has not erupted.
But after the work was over, their respective worlds underwent earth shattering changes. Not only are the material conditions obtained from the outside world becoming increasingly different, but the values are also becoming increasingly different, which is the worst and fatal.
If, after falling in love, one of you cannot remain unchanged, or if one of you becomes increasingly excellent while the other remains stagnant, and the distance and distance between the two of you increase, can you still have a future?
Good love must be close to each other and can be independent of each other.
In love, only mutual progress can make daily life unique and maintain the freshness of love.
If you meet the right person and have a sweet love, don't forget to let your partner learn with you and let your love develop and grow together.