Don't expect too much from anyone.
After reading a paragraph, I gradually understood why I feel unhappy because I always expect a result.
Reading a book and expecting it to make me profound, taking a step and expecting it to make me lose weight, sending a WeChat message, expecting a response, being kind to others and expecting others to treat me well.
Expecting too much from anyone is a disaster.
If you have high expectations for your partner, it is easy to magnify their shortcomings, ignore their efforts, and hurt the relationship.
Having high expectations for parents and constantly complaining about them not only hurts their hearts, but also makes oneself humble.
Expectations for friends are too high. In fact, if you treat them as life and death friends, they may only see you as an ordinary friend.
Some people say that I overestimated my position in your heart, but you have seen your weight in my heart clearly.
Many times, things that were thought to receive recognition turn out to be disappointing.
I thought I could exchange for sincerity, but in the end, all that remained was formality.
I thought I could wait and feel sorry, but all I left behind was sadness and loneliness.
Disappointment is inevitable when you have expectations, and once your expectations are not met, it will completely chill your heart.
There is a saying that goes, if there is no excessive joy or extreme sadness, in any relationship, if you want it to last, the less expectations you have, the better. After all, not all expectations can be achieved.
Minimize expectations, all encounters are gifts.
Life is not easy to change, and it is even more important to understand that contentment brings happiness.
Some people and things are just what you think, nothing to others.
Life is always like this, when you learn to lower your expectations, you will find that if you focus on one thing, you will feel happy, and you will find that everything you put in is worth it.
Looking back on the years that have passed, every step has been a growth.
You need to maintain love, there will always be unexpected surprises and unexpected events in life.
Be at ease with the situation, it will bloom all year round, bright and beautiful.